Mentzel, O.F. - A geographical-topographical description of the
Translated
from the German by H.J. Mandelbrote.
Part II
The
second part of Mentzel's account of life at the Cape
ranges widely, from revenues available to the
ISBN
of Reprint: 0-9584522-9-6
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The principal occasions on which big parties are
given are weddings. The feast takes place at the residence of the bride’s
parents, who spare no pains to deck their tables with everything that money can
buy. The reception is naturally in keeping with the wealth and station of the
parties concerned. Long tables are placed in the guest room, round which about
twenty-four men are seated, for the women gather in an adjoining room and are
served separately. The huge tables are so loaded with
eatables as to leave no room for another plate. There is an abundant supply of
local dishes, stewed and roasted meats, boiled and fried fish, pastries and
sweetmeats, prepared in a variety of ways, and also a good supply of imported
smoked and corned meats. Since the latter are rarely seen on the every-day
dinner-table it stands to reason that they whet one’s appetite. The result is
that the spiced and seasoned meats are eagerly consumed, whereas the fresh
foods are scarcely touched; for no man can eat more than to repletion.
In the eighth chapter of the third book of
Kolbe’s “Caput Bonae
Spei” the author has given an extremely tedious
and prolix account of the life and manners of the inhabitants at the Cape; he
talks of visits and parties; marriages, baptisms and burials; schools and
slaves, in such a muddled manner that the reader can gather neither information
nor amusement. It seems to me that the only purpose he serves thereby is to add
some pages to the bulk of his volume. I do not intend to follow Herr Kolbe’s
footsteps. I shall content myself with giving a brief but accurate statement of
what I have seen concerning these matters and avoid all flourishes and
circumlocution.
There is no rigid social code for the male
section of the population. Men do not pay each other compliments or make cerernonial calls. Friends visit each other without
previous appointments, but no one of inferior rank will venture to visit a
superior unless on pressing business; the bookkeeper will not pay a social call
upon an upper merchant, upon an under-merchant. When the object of the visit is
some pressing business, all that is necessary is for the visitor to give his
name to the slave at the door and he will be admitted forthwith. As soon as his
business is finished, he ought to take his leave unless the host invites him to
smoke a pipe with him. Sometimes an invitation follows to take a hand at L’Ombre or Gravejas: such an
invitation must not be declined.
Wedding narties are very mixed affairs; higher
and subordinate officials as well as common burghers meet on the same plane. All are regarded as
welcome guests of the host and all distinction of person is overlooked. I have
seen at wedding a merchant’s daughter dance with a burgher’s son, and, more
frequently, sons of members of the honourable Council
will dance with the daughters of plain townsmen. Due deference is, in fact,
shown by well-brought up persons to rankd and
position, but what really matters is that men of quality do not take up a
supercilious attitude to their social inferiors when they are brought together
occasionally under one roof. More striking is, perhaps, the fact that girls of
the best families will, before their marriage, be intimate with ~le girls of much more lowly origin.
Friends visit one another without ceremony. If, as sometimes happens,
the host is out, a pleasant time may be spent in the company of his wife and
children. A pipe and a dish of tea will be offered as a matter of course; a
glass of wine follows. Should the visit come at a time when the host has
important business to attend to, it would be very boorish to remain, but if the
occasion is timely, a few nearby acquaintances would be called in, and all
would indulge in that most popular pastime, the Dutch game of Gravejas. I must take exception to the Abbé
de La Caille’s statement that men usually spend the
evenings between the hours of 5 and 9 smoking, drinking, and playing games at
public places of entertainment. I do not intend in the least to cast on the Abbé’s character; I do not doubt his veracity. For all I
know he may have been a charming man. He spoke, no doubt, from experience,
but—his experience was limited. His host, Mijnheer Bestbier, may not have entertained much at his own house.
Besides, the Abbé, as a Frenchman,, was seriously handicapped by his very limited
acquaintance with the Dutch language, and there were few who understood his
own. The fine manners and the studied